Building Rapport With NLP

Ever met someone with whom you hit it off with straight away? Someone who seemed to have exactly the same views as you and mirrored the excitement that you felt at having met someone so similar? If so then you know what real rapport feels like.

Imagine being able to touch people on a level that they have never been touched before. Imagine being able to walk into a room and have the people in there instantly like you.

Using NLP you can deliberately create the feeling of rapport with anyone you want.

First of all lets look at how rapport is created in the first place.

Rapport is essentially an act of communication and communication is more than just verbal. Communication means body language, tonality and facial expressions. Ever had someone tell you what a great idea that was and you not believe them? The chances are that some part of their communication voice, body language or facial expression did not back up this statement which set of your internal alarm bells.

So what you need to do is convince the person you want to create rapport with that the two of you are very similar. Most NLP practitioner courses will teach you to mirror that persons body language but quite frankly unless you are very practised this lack subtlety and can actually annoy the person you are doing it to thus creating the exact opposite result that you wanted.

In fact you need to also mirror such things as breathing rate and speaking patterns if you want to develop a deep level rapport. Studies have shown that people who are in love tend to breathe and speak at the same speed thus helping to create that feeling of having met someone special who understands you on a level that few have before.

There are of course even more advanced techniques which, if used wrongly can assist in the development of stalkers but you will not find these techniques written down or talked about and few people will teach you them. There are also techniques for destroying rapport and getting rid of people but yet again these are considered by many in the community to be dark and are therefore rarely talked about or taught. The fact is that few people can teach these techniques effectively as an extremely deep level of understanding about NLP is needed.

Individuals who are practised in these techniques have a definite advantage over other people. Picking the right NLP practitioner course with the right trainers will ensure you get to understand these advanced techniques. You will find some of these ideas on pages on my website.

An Exercise in Building Rapport with NLP

Lets do a basic exercise find a person that you want to create rapport with. Now as you are talking with them start to notice their breathing rate and speech patters. These two will tend to reflect each other. For example does the person speak fast? If so then chances are their breathing rate will be quite fast as well. Start to subtlety match these (without being too blatant or out of character). Also start to notice such things as emotional intensity and start to match that. Over the next few days start doing these things with people and see what it does for you. As you start to become effective you will begin to notice a difference in the way people respond to you and you to them.

By now you probably realise that these techniques would be extremely useful to someone who works in sales, management, politics in fact just about any area of life you can imagine. Consider going in to see your boss to ask for a pay rise! What do you think creating a deep level of rapport beforehand would do for your chances? Or how about going into an interview room and creating such a level of rapport with the person interviewing you that simply cannot not give you the job?

By studying rapport building techniques and practising them daily all of the above and more would be within your grasp. Imagine, for example, if that person you fancied felt as though they were connecting with you on a level that they have never felt before. Do you think that this would increase your chances of persuading that person to go out with you?

Rintu Basu is the only NLP and Hypnotic Persuasion Trainer in the UK. Having worked with businesses, the police service and the finacial sector. His latest venture is developing NLP in Scotland through good quality public NLP training courses. For more about building rapport with NLP check out the website.

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The Top Seven Most Frequently Asked Questions about Underground Hypnosis - Black Ops (FAQ)

1) Is Black Ops mind control?

Anytime you are making decisions for other people you are controlling there mind. That is the goal of Black Ops and that is what happens when applied properly.

2) Does this have anything to do with evil, Black Magic, or Witchcraft.

No is has nothing to do with that. Its about using your brain more than the next person. Understanding social dynamics and social situations so you can know what people are going to do before they do it. Then you can calculate what you are going to do by thinking a couple steps ahead.

3) Are people under Black Ops Hypnosis asleep or unconscious?

No, the whole goal of Black Ops is to able to do it and hide those feelings that people would be getting from the trance with normal interaction feelings. Thats why Black Ops works.

4) If someone is under Black Ops would they be likely to reveal deep dark secrets?

Well, actually there is a whole part of the program that is devoted to this called the The Truth Exactor. People should not only buy Underground Hypnosis for the fact that they can use the material but so someone doesnt do it to them.

5) Can Black Ops be used on someone totally against their will?

That is why Black Ops was developed. So you can make people do what you want (kind of scary).

6) Could you get out of ticket if pulled over by a cop?

Yes. First, you would have to have the intention. Then you need to have an Iron Man setup with a Black Mirror technique which are both part of the program.

7) Is the sales page for Underground Hypnosis too hype.

I believe that the sales page should be directed more about what the program offers than trying to get you excited about Underground Hypnosis by over hyping the sales page.

If you want to learn about more Underground Hypnosis and how it can help you control social situations follow the link to my Squidoo Lens.

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Warnings About Finding Health Insurance Over the Internet

Here is some information that most health insurance agents and companies will not tell you about the internet, "Not every site is what it seems." For example, most people do not realize that filling out a quote might prompt 5 to 10 calls from insurance companies and agents. It will probably result in an email box full of insurance fodder, and it could go on for months.

The Down Side - Here is what typically happens when a person searches for health insurance over the internet. They type in some key word into the search engine like Dallas health insurance, Dallas health quote, or some related term, then they get the results. The advertising might draw them in (this is usually a company that bids on the right to show up on this page when you type in the specific words) The companies that advertise get the most amount of visitors to their site. The rest of us are sitting in Yahoo, Google, MSN and other search engines hoping that you will find us. If you see us listed under the search results it is because we have slaved over our site to try to gain some sort of organic placement or we just got lucky that day. When you decide on the one to click you are taken to a landing page. This is the place on the web site that is designed to get you to fill out the quote. Now this is where the circus begins. If the site is not an agent site then your name will probably be sold to up to 10 agents. This is why you might get calls from several agents.

The Up Side - The internet provides a way for you to get instant information and quotes from multiple companies all for an investment of 60 seconds. If you go to an independent agents site that works with multiple companies then you can get the best overview of what is available in the market place without getting 10 calls.

Here are a few pointers for finding a good health insurance agent.
1. Search using your city name (example: Denton Health Insurance)
2. Select from the organic listing - those that are not sponsored or in square boxes to the side
3. Select someones listing that looks like a local Agent
4. Look at their site to see if they represent multiple health insurance companies.
5. Make sure you can run your own quote.
6. Look for an agent that specializes in health insurance - not homeowners, liability,or automobile insurance.

Good Luck
Brent Trice

http://www.DallasLifeAndHealth.com

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Increasing Fertility With Hypnotherapy

The use of hypnosis in Fertility

In Britain we tend to think of infertility exclusively as a medical problem, however we all know people who tried desperately for years to conceive and then the minute they gave up and stopped trying ... guess what happens!

According to recent studies- "infertile" women who use mind/body techniques have a 42-55% conception rate as compared to 20% for those not following this protocol.

A 1992 study found that women who participated in mind/body therapy experienced a 34% conception rate as compared to 20% with Invitro Fertilisation alone. Decreased levels of depression, anxiety and anger were also noted. Click here to look at the science behind hypnosis for fertility.

I work with a proven program developed by a leading American hypnotherapist Lynsi Eastburn. The program consists of a minimum of 4 sessions with an average of about 6 it can be used alone or along side medical fertility treatment to greatly increase the chances of success.

When it is used with IVF it ideally starts a month or so before IVF commences. It often occurs that a couple that are booked in for IVF will fall pregnant before the treatment actually occurs!

Those wishing to conceive naturally are looking at a small fraction of the cost of IVF and they learn a skill that will remain with them for the rest of their lives. Not only will they increase the chances of conception with hypnotherapy, but they will reap the fringe benefits including stress reduction and relaxation skills.

Far too many women are being diagnosed with "Unexplained Infertility." Characterized by a lack of measurable, physical reasons for being unable to conceive, this catch-all diagnosis may do more harm than good, by increasing a patient's stress levels.

The Fertility Program

The HypnoFertility program helps you release conscious and unconscious blocks which may be preventing conception.

Therapy sessions are tailored for each client, based on their individual needs. The initial interview helps to identify areas that can be changed, and a care plan is established based on identified factors. Hypnotherapy techniques can reduce stress, and instill a sense of confidence and hope. In turn, this will help you to maximise chances of conceiving naturally and/or increase the success of medical assistance.

1. Identify and remove conscious and unconscious blocks which may be preventing conception.

2. Gain a positive outlook, and renew trust in your bodys ability to conceive.

3. Remain calm, patient, and in control throughout natural or assisted conception.

4. Prepare your body physically and emotionally to be a good and loving parent.

5. Have assistance with any lifestyle changes that may be necessary to help couples conceive.

This may include; weight loss and diet improvement, stopping smoking.

For more information visit www.creativeself.co.uk

Nick Smith

www.creativeself.co.uk

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